Why Are Men Avoiding Long-Term Relationships?

Hey, Fam! Texas Brown Sugar here, and boy, do we have some spicy content sizzling on the grill for you today! We just wrapped up an enlightening episode, and I gotta say, it left me with a lot to think (and laugh) about. Here’s the lowdown if you missed it, and a little something extra from our discussion.

Commitment Issues? Blame it on Netflix... Or Not

So, what’s up with men dodging long-term relationships like they’re trying to avoid a broccoli kale smoothie? Is it the age of endless options, perhaps? Or maybe it's easier to commit to a Netflix series than to a real-life partner. We dove deep with Dr. Bryant and her fabulously candid guest, Cam Newton, to unwrap this Gordian knot of modern dating.

Have you ever seen an episode of “Commitmentphobia Island”? Neither have we, but it’s basically how the dating world feels like nowadays. Everyone's swiping left and right, avoiding the actual work of building a home together like it’s a strenuous CrossFit session. Dr. Bryant had some golden nuggets to share, noting that past heartbreaks and failures teach more than your high school calculus class ever did (no offense, Ms. Jensen).

Cam Newton: King of the End Zone, but Not the Marriage Zone

Let’s talk about our man, Cam Newton. Here’s a snapshot: eight kids, three women, and a partridge in a pear tree. Cam admitted that despite his love for kids and his desire for a wife, his fear of divorce has him running for the hills. Sure, buddy, have faith and all, but let’s align those motives with something more divine than the halftime show.

Dr. Bryant came down hard but fair, throwing some philosophical footballs. If you’re building houses, make sure you’re also building a "home". Fancy metaphors aside, what he's saying is, don't just spread your roots everywhere; take care of your tree.

Selfishness and Fear: The Dynamite Duo

Now, I can’t help but put my two cents in. Many men (and let’s be real, women too) get caught up in this selfish cycle. You know, like when you eat the last cookie and deny it—times ten. Cam's behavior, which Dr. Bryant critiqued as "not taking time," leaves a trail of broken families, kind of like a bad reality show where everyone loses.

Let’s Get Real (Funny)

Now, don’t think we're roasting just Cam here. We need to be honest with ourselves and each other. If you’re bottling up fear of commitment like it’s champagne on New Year’s Eve, you’re going to pop—and not in a fun, confetti kind of way.

Dr. Bryant hit another home run discussing the importance of accountability. Like, holding yourself accountable not to binge-watch that new series when you should be out meeting people. Just saying.

Teaching the Kids: The Ultimate Boss Level

So, friends, the takeaway here isn’t just to start planning a wedding to compensate for your fear. No, no, no. That’s like buying bulk quinoa because it’s healthy and then never eating it. Instead, let’s focus on teaching the younger generation the real deal about relationships—the good, the bad, and the “why did I promise in-laws we’d host Christmas?”

We’ll wrap this up with a virtual group hug and some real talk. Relationships are hard work, y’all. Like, bringing up kids kind of hard. So, next time you find yourself reaching for that “swipe left” button, maybe ask yourself if you’re avoiding building something beautiful out of fear or laziness.

You made it to the end, and for that, I applaud you! Don’t forget to join us next week for more laughs, more real talk, and more of me—Texas Brown Sugar. Hit follow on all the social stuff, and drop a comment about your long-term relationship tales. We’re all ears (and Giggles)!

Until next time, keep it sweet, friends!